The psychology of narcissism – W. Keith Campbell
(c) TED-Ed View full lesson: http://ed.ted.com/lessons/the-psychology-of-narcissism-w-keith-campbell Narcissism isn’t just a personality type that shows up in advice …
I’m definitely not a narcissist, I’m probably the most humble person ever despite the fact that I’m one of the smartest, best looking, most competent, and overall best people I know
Narcissus died because he heard about my birth. He was afraid of competition
It’s actually low self esteem covered with bravado. Every moment is spent trying to convince themselves and others that they are better. Lived with one for 13 years. The psychological abuse they put you through is stunning.
I’m not a narcissist, it’s just that everybody else sucks and I’m awesome and should be venerated as a living god.
I classify myself as a “narcissist” although im not so proud of my condition. The part where he said “narcissists feel good but the people around them suffer” is absolutely true, i destroyed the best person i ever had in my life and i didnt even know why and how i did it. Seek for help? Impossible i feel too much guilt. Not all narcissists feel good about themselves believe me.
My therapist said that my narcissism causes me to misread social situations. I’m pretty sure she was hitting on me.
As some side notes, you can be selfish without being a narcissist.You can be vain and like taking care of your physical appearance without being a narcissist.You can like compliments and positive attention without being a narcissist.You can also lack self-awareness without being a narcissist.And you can be a narcissist without being a sociopath or a psychopath.Narcissists can feel depressed.Narcissists generally lack in empathy but it can come sometimes, rarely. Don’t go expecting it, though, otherwise you’re just asking to be hurt.The main focus is that a narcissist does these things while also lacking in empathy, and that they are more likely to do things to hurt others because of it, and that they generally lack the self-awareness to realize that what they’re doing is bad or that they just shouldn’t be doing it, and reasoning with them generally doesn’t work. If a person does any of these things, together or separately, and they still have empathy, than it’s less likely that they’re a narcissist.
“If Narcissus had a brother named Social Anxietus, he would get nervous whenever people look at him, die at the sight of his reflection, and then blame himself for dying.”-JaidenAnimations, “Anxiety” (I think)
I feel like I used to be a narcissist, but now I am just an insecure, anxious, introverted mess…Though, I always kept my narcissism to myself
Wow, fantastic video! I have watched PsychtoGo’s various videos on the subject and honestly I think this one is better than all of them. This video goes (slightly) more into the myth of Narcissus, environmental/cultural contributors, and makes the important distinction between narcissistic personality disorder and the 2 kinds of recognized narcissistic personality traits (which PsychtoGo didn’t go into AT ALL).
it’s so interesting to find out more about my parents culture 💕
My husband (hopefully soon to be ex) had this drilled into him from his parents from birth because he was the only boy and I found that I have been a victim of narcissistic abuse for years. It wasn’t just physical, verbal, emotional, mental, but also gaslighting, being manipulative, vindictive, you name it. The camera he I stalled in the living room became unplugged by accident when I unplugged a lamp, and in response I was choked, and of course, it was “my fault” because he wasn’t feeling well, and it was an inconvenience. He slept it off. But when I had bronchitis the entire week before, I was being selfish for not giving him attention. Yep.
There’s nothing wrong with being positive about your image. Just don’t tear others down.
i used to have NPD and it was the time when my best friend talked about how i act hurts him i said to myself i treated people badly and they left now i need to change that thing about me because i don’t want to lost him. it was a rough journey and i am still on it but i become so much better,i am still a sarcasm queen tho but in the end i am proud of myself for choosing to get help and seeing my disease because it’s a disease and a narcissist never accept that
I do those things inwardly. I’m aware of them and I stop them from manifesting, but they are still there.For example 90% of the people I talk with, in my head I’m thinking “you’re not smarter than this person, just listen and talk as he or she is doing to you. Not everything is a competition for status. Why do you even need to know if you’re better? Just treat them like a person”. But I feel like I’m just using those thoughts to hide my actual thoughts, which are the complete opposite. I just feel like I’m 2 people, one is a narcissist and the other is aware the other is a narcissist. But the narcissist is the one who’s got his hands on the wheel, while the other one is telling the taxi where to go.Am I a narcissist?
I’m way too great to be a narcissist.
“Unable to tear himself away, Narcissus drowned”that part always gets me
This video mainly focuses on the Egocentric types, (which some narcissists are)…But it really doesn’t explain all the traits and abuse techniques that narcisssistic people resort to in order to achieve their agendas and destroy their targets lives…The lies, manipulations, deceit, Projection, Deflection, Gaslighting…The spreading of false rumors, smear-campaigning…The emotional abuse they inflict on their loved ones…And how they pit other family members and people against their scapegoat, thru lies, deceit,manipulation, and other tactics listed above….There is so much more to narcissistic abuse than stated in this video…I think this video is just a quick introduction to egocentric self absorbed types of people. But a real abusive narcissist is really really bad…
how to diagnose yourself with narcissism:1) reflect deeply on the question: could you be a narcissist?2) if you made it to step 2, congrats! you’re not a narcissist
Thank TED Ed.It’s worse when institutions go out of their way to endorse such a person
The five major world religions – John Bellaimey
(c) TED-Ed Explore the intertwined histories and cultures of the major religions: Hinduism, Judaism, Buddhism, Christianity and Islam. — It’s perfectly human to grapple with …
Hinduism: We are one.Judaism: Even the most simple things can have a great impact on our lives.Christianity: We must all show love to one another, as God has shown love to all of us.Buddhism: We can find happiness if we don’t let it come at the cost of others.Islam: Always strive to go the extra mile in being a better person.
love how he talked so respectfully about every religion and wasn’t biased at all
As one great person once said; “We can make a religion out of this!”
Actually, a correction. Hinduism didn’t actually start with lord Krishna, he was one of the incarnation of lord Vishnu, who is the the maintainer of the universe..these lessons of life were taught by every deity a hindu worships, lord krishna just compiled it for Arjuna during mahabharat. Infact it was after mahabharat that the kalyug or the modern age started.
religion: love otherspeople: *peace was never an option*
I’m not a religious person but from what I’ve learned, every religion taught people to be kind, compassionate, giving and loving…
As a Muslim , I respect everyone’s religion and beliefs and I hope everyone respects mine too 💗
The world’s biggest problem is if a person is wrong people look at his religion instead of his character.
I was born Christian, but I‘m convinced that the truth is somewhere in the middle of all the religions. Love and respect to all of you ☮️❤️
I really respect all religions but I would like to correct one thing about Hinduism that it dates way back before Lord Krishna. Krishna was the eighth incarnation of Lord Vishnu and there has been other significant incarnations before him and even before that people used to believe in Hinduism and Sanatan Dharma. People used to worship Vishnu and Shiva and other gods much way before Lord Krishna. We believe Hinduism is a very old and respected religion 😊
Very nice video! As a muslim, i was wondering about how the other world religions are like (aspecially bhudism and hinduism). You seem to capture the (seemingly) peaceful aspects of each religion without prejudices. Hopefully everyone who watches this becomes more open minded torwards other religions and cultures and meet other people with respect. Thanks a lot !
Let me say this as a Hindu: Describing Hinduism by its deities is like describing a person by his/her fingers. Although it is a vital functional part, it is far from being anything more than a tool. That said, thank you for the very educational video.
The comment section makes me so happy, I guess I have finnaallyyy found the kind of people I always wished to know. – A happy muslimp.s I kinda teared up to see such unbiased video and so nice comments respecting each others belief and if anything learning something more greater each time, May Allah SWT bless you with widespread knowledge and happiness, Ameen.
The narrator is so professional. I am amazed by how he pronounced salat & zakat (in Islam religion) . This is the right way to pronounced these words in Arabic.
Buddhism is a teaching of life More like education not a religion
We live and let live.. we don’t invade or fight wars in the name of religion.. our belief system can encapsulate all other beliefs .. we love and respect all other faiths.. we are Hindus (Sanatan Dharma followers). Peace ☮️🇮🇳
I have studied and researched in depth over the past 2 decades about 4 of the above religions( except Judaism which I am still currently studying and researching ) and I can say that he got at least half of the Hinduism and Buddhism aspects wrong. 😥 They are far more profound then mentioned here. Too many misrepresentations there. For example, Krishna is made out to be a messiah or prophet like Mohammed or Christ in this video which is untrue. He is not the founding prophet (as he is made out to be here) since there were many significant contributors before him ….and the religion of Hinduism is way older than Krishna! Also, it’s not an amalgamation of various religions but a way of life/one religion which accommodates multiple belief systems to suit its practitioners…. which is what makes it unique from the rigid “only one belief system” of our Abrahamic religions. There are many other misstatements in this video. Buddhism too is not justly portrayed here! Too many points of contention for me to go into details here . I recommend viewers to do some research into the eastern religions before accepting this video as “truthful and factual” since there are many better and fascinating actual studies and theses online. I somehow feel like this video was made by a person with a very “western” view on non-western religions rather than a person who has an open and unbiased mind. 😔 Kudos that he got at least half of those things right!😅One thing I can say is true of all the 5 religions is that they all originally preach love, tolerance and peace. 😍 Shame how some corrupt, greedy and power-hungry leaders can brainwash some fanatics into doing harm in the name of religion! Wish we all could rise above that! 🌹
honestly, this was a pretty calming video. nice to learn about other religions, i never really understood what judaism, hinduism, and buddhism are like, and this kinda helped. really sweet to listen to how they describe my religion, i could really listen to ted ed and fall asleep to the relaxing voices lol
What people don’t realize is that in Hinduism, every term actually has a deeper and more significant meaning which is compared to ourselves, whether mind or body. So, we need gurus to explain those meanings to us for a better insight.Also, as an Indian, I am amazed that we managed to keep our language alive. Tamil is one of the oldest languages in the world and until now, many people still speak it. For the younger generation out there, pls don’t forget Tamil. We should be proud to speak it.
Not a follower of any particular religion, but have a deep appreciation for learning about all. Wonderful unbiased video.
Four sisters in Ancient Rome – Ray Laurence
(c) TED-Ed Sign up for our newsletter and never miss an animation: http://bit.ly/TEDEdNewsletter How did the young, wealthy women of Ancient Rome spend their days?
Romans: give girls the same nameRomans: can’t tell aunts from sisters and wives on the family treeRomans: *suprised pikachu face*
Life of romans: 1. Birth2. Domitia3. Death
*”-they go in the morning to avoid the men-“*Mood 😂
it’s a sad thing when your life is better than a greek woman’s because you’re actually allowed to leave the house.
“Guess what her name is”Guy at the door thinking: “Steve?”I cracked up xD
‘I’m getting married to the 19 year old who gave me all this STUFF!’ 😳😂😳😂
Domitia, Domitia, and Domitia.My favorite is Domitia. No, not that Domitia, the other one, with the D in the name. You know, the one with the eyes and ears? That Domitia.
Anyone remember Lucius from “a day in the life of a teenager in Rome”?
My favorite of the sisters is Domitia
“What will Domitia, Domitia and Domitia do all day?”This literally made my day…
“Ok. who broke it? I’m not mad, I just wanna know.””….I broke it!””No, no you didn’t. Domita 3?””Hey don’t look at me. Look at Domita 2.”
I can’t believe girls married so early like that 😭🇬🇭
“Domitia??, I just wanted to tell you that you are my favourite child!”Domitia 2: “Oh thank you!””Not you!”Domitia 3: “Thank you!””Not you either!”Domitia 1: “Thank you!””Will these girls ever get anything right?”
I am glad that now girls have more rights like being able to have different names
My wife was pretty rad. But I’m pretty sure she killed me, just saying. That Pollio guy was a jerk.
This is really a nice way to show history.� Well done.
“Domita three isn’t just drawing, she’s also watching the action”Oooooh, things have gotten spicy
Dad: “LUCIUS DOMITUS AHENOBARBUS, did u break the vase??Lucius: ” It wasn’t me, it was DOMITIA!”
I love these “A day in a life” series!I also imagine that they are all the same soul. Living a life in one episode, then re-incarnating in the next video. Well, except this one (coz both were during the ancient rome)
0:31 – Lucius Domitius Ahenobarbus. That’s Nero’s birth name, in case many of you didn’t know.
The Atlantic slave trade: What too few textbooks told you – Anthony Hazard
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“Believing that in death, their souls will return home” had me tear up 🙁
This was actually a really good breakdown. As a person of color we often forget the involvement of Africa and also the long-lasting impact it still has today.
Hey even if you are watching this for an assignment, do think about the deeper meaning of it all and don’t pass it off as annoying homework. You’ll be surprised of how much you’ll actually learn
Hey, I’m not that good at English but this video is SO well made, the onscreen animations and the readen text is so great. Big applause from here. Thx for making me smarter.
I’m Mexican American on my mother’s side. She told me that my grandfather when he came to the US in 1908 saw African American ex-slaves with parts of their ears cut off. This is the first time I have ever heard those experiences confirmed.
This was well written and explained. I especially appreciate the graphics and visual aspect of it. Kids need visual pics to get a sense of the scale, the atrocities and the full pic of what slavery looked like. We never hear about the effects slavery had on Africa and worldwide which is disappointing and it needs to be talked about. I especially wasn’t aware of WHY Tribes and African Kings cooperated with Europeans in enslaving Africans, makes sense the “reasoning” yet still and will always be appalling!
POV: your here for virtual learning
Proud of my ancestors for being very patient and enduring harshness of the unthinkable
Thank you for putting out a more comprehensive view of it. It’s also enlightening to know what the consequences were to the African nations who were left.
this is sickening. the fact that people actually could do this to another person kills me.
Thank you so much for this video. It’s sad that you can learn more on YouTube than a textbook
This was a very good education video thanks for making it and it has inspired me and others to know what would have happened if the company didn’t exist.
And also what should have been in the video, was the work of Carl Linnaeus. His work about the classification of plants, animals (and of course people) also helped to manifest a lot of the racial prejudice from the late 18th century on wards. I personally don’t think that this was his intention, but those who adopted the skin colour code during the Spanish Inquisition in 1492 (to separate The Moors from the native Spaniards) should have all been in this video.
I usually find myself frowning at the half truth story that is often told. However, this is on point.
the story telling animation of this video is one of the best i’ve ever seen……great job animation team
The ideology that slaves were destined to be slaves was not created by the Christians. That ideology had been around since before Plato and had never really been question until sometime in/near the modern eras. If you read ancient texts on the subject, such as the Roman philosopher Seneca, it was never a question of “is slavery moral,” but rather, “what is the moral way to treat slaves.” Most cultures throughout the world have used slavery at one point or another. Thus it is important to reemphasize to those of you who are students, that Africa is not the only country to have had its people enslaved. Remember the story of Sparticus of Rome? Sparticus was a Greek who was captured during a battle with Rome. In the ancient days, war captives became slaves. In fact, for Rome, Greek slaves were the prized slaves for their intelligence. Just something to keep in mind. Too many western kids today believe that only Africans were used as slaves, and that is simply not true.
it’s alarming how humans can get accustomed to such cruelty and let it go on for 600 – 700 years.
I like how the narrator explains that slavery is at odds with Christian ideals, and how proponents and practitioners of slavery had to go through some logical calisthenics to justify their crimes.
Thank You for making this subject Accurate once again. The sanitized versions that they have inserted into text books in the last 40 years have caused more problems than the truth ever had.You can credit the dis- information to the Democrats of the late 70’s and early 80’s.They thought we couldn’t handle the truth, so they decided to warp history. As expected, this has not worked out, leaving people younger than myself very confused, and angry over intentionally inserted , or outright omissions of the truth. Thanks Guys.
To all of you people who is calling Ted Ed biased because the Arab slave trade wasn’t mentioned : THE VIDEO IS ABOUT THE ATLANTIC SLAVE TRADE , THE ATLANTIC SLAVE TRADE , THE ATLANTIC SLAVE TRADE With that being said , this video is on the Atlantic slave trade , mentioning anything about the arab slave trade would be pointless because that’s NOT the topic of the video. STOP trying to belittle one situation in favor of another , YES slavery in general was/is bad. The video is just highlighting thr Atlantic Slave trade.
A day in the life of a Roman soldier – Robert Garland
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This should be a series where we follow servius around I’m interested if he’ll ever get back to his girl lmao
If anyone wants to know, I counted all “5000” men in the picture and it comes up to 2143 men. Nice try 😉
God: you can’t survive 25 years of serviceServius: *hold my spear*
I was alittle worried when they mentioned him being in Germany. But luckily he’s led by Germanicus and not Varus at the moment so he’ll be fine.
We live quite comfortably today
Actually soldiers often went back to Rome during time of peace. It was not just 25 years of war without interruption.
I hope my mans got with his wife and settled down
And then that girl gets married before he comes home*oof*
I cant imagine what was going through their heads in warprobably swords
When he says, “he is stationed in Germania” my heart sank :'(But then ‘under Germanicus’ and I took a big sigh of relief. Funny how these videos make you care for a person who lived 2000 years ago
This is how my parents described their walks to school
Today, I was pissed cause I had to wait for three cars in front of me at the KFC drive thru. Damn we have it tough compared to them.
I hope he lived… And had a happy life with his wife. I hope she survived to bring into the world many healthy children for them to love and raise.
Fun fact, “Serviūs” Means “Servant.”
The saddest part about this is they were ambushed AGAIN a few hours later.Poor guy.
Such a great video. Really captures the emotions of someone who fights for his country.
When they said three legions in Germania, I feared the worst…”Varus give me back my legions!”
Very nice thank you for making this video I enjoyed watching it 🙂
_”Unlike other soldiers, he doesn’t gamble… he’s even kept his viaticum, the three gold coins he received when he enlisted.”_Ancient Roman Army 40k enlistment bonus. Perfect for spending on a new Camaro- I mean, Wagon with a 40% interest rate.
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